Poetic Logic - January 10, 2008 Sara talks with poet - and child abuse survivor - Jose Acosta
Jose Acosta is determined to not be silent about child abuse because the child-victim’s voice is what every abuser is determined to extinguish, even when the victim lives on. Acosta’s two collections of poetry, Life Passion & Patriotism, and From Fear to Hope & Back Again are revealing as he looks at his experience from this side of adulthood and with his perfect recall of a child’s feelings and fears. In conversation he’s open about these experiences despite a continuing sensitivity to the egregious violation of trust and boundary. While Acosta lives his life at perfect pitch and with the discipline you’d expect from someone with a successful career in the military for almost 20 years, you do get the sense that there’s something shadowy beneath the surface, something that he’ll eventually get around to letting you know whether through one of his poetry readings around town, or in conversation if it goes in that direction. I wrote to Jose and asked him to expand on an answer he gave during our recorded interview. The question was: What else do you want us to know about child abuse. The answer was: It lasts forever. I want to share Jose’s further comments here, in keeping with saying what needs to be said, giving voice to what wants to get out: Once you have been abused, it lasts a lifetime. There is no expiration Some may take [the memories] to their graves and never tell anyone for various reasons. Others may be overwhelmed and never be able to cope with life in a normal way. Some fight it and let the anger drive them to become productive in life I have spoken to criminals, officers of the law, social services personnel, When I speak or read about child abuse, I can look at the ### ~ Sara Schlossman, for Poetic Logic, January 10, 2008 ~
|
|
|